Visit Tasha's Web site



Visit Laura's Web site



Visit Regina's Web site



Visit Diana's Web site



Visit Sara's Web site

  • Cozy Chicks Blog
  • The Girl Detective Blog
  • A Newbie's Guide to Publishing
  • Poisoned Pen Letters
  • Meritorious Mysteries
  • Judy Merrill Larson
  • uberlonelyguy16
  • Edwardian State of Mind
  • Grace Notes
  • The Little Blog of Murder
  • Renee Rosen
  • J.T. Ellison
  • Murder She Writes
  • Contemporary Nomad
  • Book Daddy
  • Femmes Fatales
  • Overboard
  • What Fresh Hell is This?
  • Alexandra Sokoloff
  • Naked Authors
  • Surrounded on Three Sides
  • The Outfit
  • First Offenders
  • Anatomy of a Book Deal
  • Elizabeth Peters
  • Debutante Ball
  • The Lipstick Chronicles
  • Rosett Writes Blog
  • Southern Comfort
  • A Dark Planet
  • Confessions of an Idiosyncratic Mind
  • Galleycat
  • Book Square
  • Kill Zone Authors
  • Amelia Peabody
  • Tim Maleeny
  • Miss Snark
  • Heather Webber
  • Killer Year
  • Murderati
  • Refrigerator Door
  • Laurie R. King -- Mutterings
  • Tess Gerritsen
  • Reviewed by Liz
  • Off The Page
  • Julia Buckley
  • Will Bereswill's blog
  • Bookseller Chick
  • Sarah Stewart Taylor
  • The Sphere
  • I want to read more posts about:











      View Results

    Loading ... Loading ...
    Polls Archive

    Archives by Month
    Archives by Author
    Design by
    DreamForge Media

    Meta:
    RSS 2.0
    Comments RSS 2.0
    Valid XHTML
    WP

    In Lieu Of…

    Regina Harvey Icon

    It’s my birthday this week, and, while I am still this side of one of those big number years, I am - let’s be honest - getting up there. But only to the point that “my special day” feels a lot like any other day and all I really want as gifts are a nice meal I didn’t have to cook and maybe some new socks and some good tea.

    Really, that’s what I told my kids - nice socks and a really good loose-leaf decaf.

    But it’s got me thinking - you know how you always see death announcements (if you’re morbid like me and like to read them) and they say, “In lieu of flowers…” I started thinking about what I’d like in lieu of presents. (And yes, it has occurred to me that it is a mite sad that my impending birthday would bring me to making analogies to funerals).

    So, in lieu of flowers, I would like:

    a few more beautiful autumn days, with crisp blue skies, low, fat clouds, and burning leaves before the gray skies clamp down on me.

    a day without rudeness - when I drive, shop, or anything else.

    and (knowing the GG rule about no politics) just a simple wish that, whatever the outcome, whoever has the right to vote will get to vote and will find a way to get out there and do it, AND that the vote will be fairly conducted and tallied.

    There. Simple, eh? What would your in lieu of presents be for your next birthday? Anything you’d like to give to someone else in lieu of presents?

    5 Responses to “In Lieu Of…”

    1. Here’s hoping you get all three of your birthday wishes, Regina!

      Since my birthday is right around the corner, too… in lieu of gifts I’d like a day with no clock-watching. Or a giant chocolate chip cookie. Whichever is easier…

      by Sara on October 30th, 2008 at 8:18 am

    2. In lieu of presents, I’d take time. Just an amazing day with the people I love. No television, no telephones, no computers. Just us. Having fun.

      by laura on October 30th, 2008 at 8:39 am

    3. Mine’s farther away, in February - along with an anniversary that dates, I’ll bet, to the year before the year of your birth.

      For the birthday, I’d like to take my wife on a weekend just for her - where she wants to go, with no obligation to please me or anyone else - to get up late, if it pleases her, spend the day in a music store perhaps, and return home to play her piano as much as she wants without hearing voices saying things about how it’s colocated with the BIG TeeVee - and then sleep late with no guilt on Sunday morning.

      And then, the next day, do it all over again - this time because it will be anniversary number 41, which must mean something.

      by Bob on October 30th, 2008 at 12:49 pm

    4. Thanks guys! Sorry for the late comment - I was without internet all day. How’s that for a birthday present!!!

      by Regina Harvey on October 30th, 2008 at 6:48 pm

    5. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!

      by Tasha Alexander on October 31st, 2008 at 12:57 am

    Leave a Reply

    :) :D :( :o 8O :? 8) :lol: :x :P :oops: :cry: :evil: :twisted: :roll: :wink: :!: :?: :idea: :arrow: :| :mrgreen: